Dr. Barton Goldsmith: When your ex asks for help
Maria Chen
Maria Chen
Reporter · Decatur, IL
With a degree in Community Development from the University of Illinois, Maria has dedicated her 4 years of reporting to local grassroots movements and community engagement. Previously at the Champaign-Urbana News-Gazette, she brings a deep knowledge of local cultures and neighborhoods.
More from Maria →Reporter · Tuesday, November 3, 2026 at 10:00 AM · 1 min read
My ex and I are still friendly. We have a mutual dog that lives with her, but I cover the vet bills. Recently, the poor little thing got a bacterial infection and was at death’s door. My ex called crying…